I don’t really know where to start this post. It’s a difficult one but it’s something I feel the need to share.
This weekend was tough.
We started 2018 with some amazing news, Hayley found out that she was pregnant and early scans showed that we were expecting twins.
Unfortunately this weekend our worst nightmares came true and we lost both babies at 9 weeks in.
The cause, as with most loses at this stage, is unknown. Sometimes I guess nature decides it wasn’t meant to be. Not that, that makes it any easier.
The words I keep telling myself are the ones I heard from Joe DeFranco… “Compared to what?”
Yeah this sucks but compared to what? We already have an amazing son. Hayley is good and healthy after what has happened and we’ll be able to try again in a few months. We have great friends and family around us for support. Compared to other situations there’s a lot to keep us positive and moving on.
I’ve got to keep looking forward and being strong for my family and our future.
Thank you for reading.